A Very Long Drive

And a very long post to go with it. This is the one where I tell you all about our drive from Las Vegas to New Hampshire.

We spent a Saturday packing up the truck, with the help of a couple of friends and my nephew, who flew in just to help us. We wanted to cover as much ground as possible, so as soon as everything was loaded, we took off. We were on the road around 6pm, headed north.

Day 1

The first night we spent in Beaver, UT. We didn’t get too far from Vegas because we were pretty worn out from the day of loading up the truck, so we stopped there for the night. When we got up the next morning, there was snow! Greta handled it like a champ, even though it was the first time she’d ever seen snow. It was cold and exciting and there were lots of snowflakes to smell!

Of course, the small amount of snowfall overnight had us a bit worried, but we could see the freeway from the hotel and it looked fine, so we went for it. Well, it wasn’t fine. The snow got heavier and heavier, and there were signs saying that I-70 was closed at Richfield. Thank goodness we weren’t going that way, and by the time we got over the hills towards Salt Lake City, the roads had cleared up.

Salt Lake City was an easy drive, as was the drive into Wyoming. Mister was worried about a section of I-80 in Wyoming known as Three Sisters, which is a series of steep grades and curvy roads. Driving was good through there, so I hardly noticed – I just tried to keep up with Mister in the moving van.

A little ways into Wyoming, the roads got icy pretty quick. I asked Mister to slow down (walkie-talkies are great for traveling in groups), and he did, but I was still having a hard time. All of a sudden, the pickup started fishtailing and I ended up going off the road.

Yeah, that’s the part I didn’t tell you about when I was blogging while we were stuck in Rawlins. I didn’t want to tell anyone until we made it all the way to NH safely.

Where I spun out, but it was icy and snowy.

So I slid off the road, into the grassy area. I missed one of the marker posts by a few inches, but I was stuck. I called to Mister, who stopped as quickly and safely as he could, walked back to me to help digging out. He was smart enough to put a shovel, tire chains, and a couple of bags of salt in the back of the pickup, so he worked at getting me unstuck. Once that was done, it was nearly dark, the roads were worse, and we were still in the middle of nowhere. He let me take the lead so I could go at a speed that I felt was safe, and so that if it happened again he’d see me and be able to stop sooner.

We continued on for another 60 miles to the nearest town, which was Rawlins, and spent 2 days there since the freeway was closed to Cheyenne.

Day 2

Day 3 was spent stuck in the hotel.

On Day 4, Mister was determined to get out of Wyoming. The freeway was still closed, and didn’t look like it would be open at least until Thursday because high winds blow, which can overturn high profile vehicles (like our moving van), and the winds also blow snow onto the road, which then gets really icy really fast (hence my spinout). We consulted the WY-DOT website, and I talked to a few other people in the lobby, and it was determined that taking US-287 to WY-220 into Casper, then taking I-25 to Cheyenne would be the best bet for getting us out of Wyoming before the end of the week. It was about 5 hours out of the way, but it was better than another day or three in Rawlins.

I felt like I was going to barf from the nerves, but I kept going.

The road to Casper was windy and had some snow and ice on it, but I did pretty good. There were a few cars off the road, but I wasn’t one of them. We stopped at a rest stop about halfway to Casper, and it sounded like the building was going to blow away.

The interstate from Casper to Cheyenne was even windier, and had even more snow blown across the road, so it was slow going but I made it through that too. We saw even more cars spun out on the sides of the road, but again, I wasn’t one of them. Once we made it to Cheyenne, the road was clear, the winds eased up, and we were finally on our way out of Wyoming.

finally leaving Wyoming

We made it to North Platte, NE. Day 5 was more driving, all the way through the flat, straight roads of Nebraska and Iowa. We made it all the way to Davenport, IA. We also stopped at Iowa 80, which is the world’s biggest truck stop. I had been looking forward to it since we started planning our trip. We did a bit of shopping and had something to eat, which refreshed us for the last 20 minutes to Davenport.

Day 5

When we woke up on Day 6, it was raining. I was hoping it wouldn’t be icy, since it was near that line of rain that turns to snow on the weather map. I was still freaked out over my spinout, and nervous about driving in the rain. Funny how living in the desert does that to you. I kept a death grip on the steering wheel the whole day, and my shoulders and arms were aching by the time we stopped.

This was also the beginning of the toll roads. Indiana was weird – there are no attendants at all, which thwarted our plans for me to take Mister’s ticket and pay for him as he follows me through. Ohio was better, but Mister was in front of me at the tolls and they didn’t take cards, and he had no cash. I saw him pull up and stop on the side, and when I got to the toll booth, the attendant told me that I had to pay his toll because I didn’t get Mister a Valentine’s Day gift. (I did, but that’s besides the point.) I was just glad to start seeing some of that east coast friendliness that I was missing.

We continued on through Cleveland, alternate routes due to construction, and pouring rain. I’d about had enough of the rain, and I wasn’t able to tell anymore whether or not I was going to spin out because I was starting to hate the rear-wheel drive pickup with no weight in the back, and wished I could be driving my car. Also, I don’t know what it is with rain that completely obliterates any road markings when it rains at night. In any case, we stopped near Erie, PA for the night.

It rained the whole way

I was determined to make it home on Day 7. It should only have taken 4 days, and the truck was due back on Sunday (it’s now Friday, for anyone keeping track). I was familiar with the NY Thruway and Mass Turnpike, and I’ve driven to and from Toronto to home a few times, so I was confident that it could be done in one day.

It was raining again.

But the Thruway is a fairly easy drive, for the most part. I was a bit worried near Schenectady where it’s a bit hilly, but I really started to freak out as we turned south at Albany to go to Massachusetts. It was getting dark, and I was not looking forward to the Berkshires.

Did I tell you that I don’t like driving through the Berkshires? About the wicked thunderstorms with (I later found out) possible reported tornadoes that I drove through one time? The not exactly flat and smooth road? I really started to freak out big time, and Mister’s walkie talkie was dead because he had left it on all night without charging it. So not only was he going too fast for my liking, I couldn’t get around him to slow him down, couldn’t contact him to tell him to slow down, and there was no way I was going to call him on my cell while I was driving through the sleet (yes, sleet) and a panic attack.

When he finally did stop, I had a chance to calm down. I did not want to get on the road again, but on the other hand I really wanted to get home. So I got back in the pickup and kept driving, talking myself through the panic and telling Greta that we’d make it.

Once I got off the Turnpike, something changed. It wasn’t raining any less than it had been in the last 2 days – in fact, it was raining harder on that last 60 miles – but I knew this route like the back of my hand. I was finally in really familiar territory, and my confidence returned. Mostly.

Day 7. It rained again.

This is the part where Mister had a hard time keeping up with me.

We finally made it, dropped the moving truck off at our new home and went to my Dad’s, where my stepmother had the guest room and dinner ready for us. I tried to relax my arms and shoulders from my weeklong death grip on the steering wheel, and we both slept very, very soundly.

So that’s my trip. I’m not really looking forward to any long drives in the near future, but if I have to, I hope that the weather is warmer and drier than we had on this trip.

Rawlins

We are spending another night in Rawlins, WY. For the last hour or so of our drive yesterday, the road was pretty icy, making for treacherous driving. I was especially nervous, since I’m driving Mister’s pickup – a rear-wheel drive truck, which is not something I have experience with when the roads are less than ideal. We made it to Rawlins last night and checked into a hotel.

This morning, when we tried to check out, the front desk clerk asked us which way we were heading. He has the website for Wyoming road info up on his computer, and it turns out that I-80 was closed to Cheyenne. If we could make it it Cheyenne, we’d be fine because the road is pretty straight and flat from there. But instead we are spending another night in Rawlins.

We all have a bit of cabin fever since we’re stuck here, but for me, this is a bit of a good thing. I’ve had a lot of anxiety about this trip. Between losing Greta and the icy roads, my nerves are shot. Having an extra day to relax has gotten my appetite back to normal, given me a chance to rest (I took a wonderful nap today), and when the road opens I’ll be ready to go and hopefully not as nervous about it.

Greta’s been handling the trip like a champ. The pickup is her home, since it’s the only thing that smells familiar to her anymore. She’s been pretty good in the hotels, and even though she’s not keen on the brutal icy wind here in Wyoming, she’s been great with the snow. It’s just another thing to smell and check out as far as she’s concerned.

And for those of you who are asking why we didn’t take the southern route, there was some wild weather along I-40 today, with high winds and a dust storm, so we probably would have been screwed either way. I’m just glad that there’s a restaurant at this hotel.

On The Road

Today we’re starting on our long trip to New Hampshire. Obviously my computer is packed up, so I’ll be keeping up with things during stops by checking the old blog on my phone. Maybe if you’re lucky I’ll make a post or two during the trip (but not while driving). Once the computer comes back out, I’ll write about the trip.

See you in New Hampshire!

The Florida Report

As you probably know, I went to Florida to visit my sister and celebrate Mia’s 5th birthday. Here’s how my trip went:

Mia

Mia is adorable. Even though she hasn’t seen me in nearly 4 years, she had no issues accepting that I’m her Aunty. She was in bed when I got there, but her Dad handed me a card that she made me, and I got to hug her when I got up.

Mia’s in preschool now (since she turned 5 after the kindergarten cutoff) and doing really well. She loves school, but even at her young age would prefer to do anything but homework.

She enjoyed hanging out with me, and let me braid her hair one morning. She would randomly say, “I love you, Aunty” which is awesome. She does that to her parents and siblings too.

Mia’s birthday party was a typical 5-year-old’s party. Family and a few friends were there, and Mia tore through the presents so fast that I don’t even think she saw what they were.

Spike

My sister has a little Chihuahua with a huge ego. Spike acts like a big dog – so much so that after he launched himself at the sliding glass door while Sis and I were in the living room, I took to calling him Cujo. But once you get to know him and get him to calm down, he’s just a little cuddlebug.

Find Spike:

Where's Spike?

I had a hard time finding him too, until I went towards this corner and saw his tail start wagging.

Greta would not be happy to know that I held another dog while I was away. Despite all the fur, she was so excited at my return that she failed to notice another dog’s scent on me.

My Sister

Remember when my sister confronted her Senator about the job situation? She’s been out of work for well over 2 years.

Not anymore.

When I arrived on Thursday evening, Sis told me that I’d be hanging out at the house alone for a while on Friday because she had to go in to her new job orientation. Hooray! I didn’t mind being left alone, except I didn’t have a car so I was kinda stuck at the house. I picked up a rental car on Saturday for the rest of the trip, but also ended up leaving Monday morning instead of Tuesday afternoon as originally planned. After all, I did go out there to see the family, and since everyone would be working and my sister would be really stressed out after her first day, there was no reason for me to stay longer.

Also… I’m trying to be nice about this so I don’t start any family feuds, but I was a bit irritated at my sister’s habit of negativity. She complains a lot and I didn’t feel like she put enough energy into gratitude or positivity, so it was hard to be around her because of that. This isn’t anything new for her, but I have a tendency to forget how much it affects me when I haven’t seen her for some time. Cutting my trip short helped me keep my peace of mind, and I did stay long enough to be at Mia’s birthday party, so mission accomplished.

Allergies

Apparently I am allergic to Florida. By my 3rd full day there, my sinuses felt like they were killing me, despite taking two 12-hour decongestants and a handful of ibuprofen just a few hours apart. I didn’t sleep well Sunday night, and by Tuesday (I was home at this point) I had a full-blown chest cold. The last time I was sick was four years ago, just a couple of weeks after visiting my sister. Before that, I remember my allergies going berserk on my drive to Florida after I passed a grass-mowing operation on the highway near Ocala. I took so many decongestants to hide any evidence of sniffles so that I could get in the NICU to see Mia…

My last 3 visits to Florida have been in November, so it’s either something that’s current at that time of year, or something that lives all the time. At any rate, I’m not fond of being sick and not looking forward to visiting a suspected allergen again.

Greta

Greta was NOT happy that I was gone for so long. She knew that Mister and I left together one morning, and she knew that I didn’t return at my usual time in the evening. Mister had some luck comforting her the first day, but as my absence grew longer she wanted nothing to do with him. We think she blamed him for the fact that I wasn’t there. I don’t think it helped much when on my 2nd day gone, Mister put the phone on speaker so I could talk to Greta. He said she looked confused and a bit irritated at him that I had been reduced to a voice. For the rest of my trip, Mister couldn’t get near her for basic care like her eye drops, and she even refused to take handouts from him.

When I got home, Greta was so excited that as she was running around in circles as she usually does when I get home, she was bumping into all sorts of things, which is unusual. She also had a bigger than usual excitement piddle when we went outside for our greeting. After about an hour of me being home, all was right in her world and she even let Mister hold her. Unless I can take Greta with me, I don’t think I should leave her for more than one night. She’s obviously very attached to me and gets very depressed when I’m not around.

So that’s my trip. Not sure when I’ll get back to see my adorable niece, but on the other hand I’m glad I’m home.

Anglophelia

I’ve mentioned a few times that I’ve been to London. I haven’t been back in way too long, but I never lost my affection for all things British. Lucky for me, Mister shares my affinity for British culture. For example, BBC America is one of the top 5 channels watched on our TV, if we watch a movie there’s a good chance it will be British, and we even have cabinets that look like the old red telephone boxes to store our DVDs in:

Entertainment center

With the Royal Wedding coming up, I’ve been avidly reading any an all news I can about the wedding. And even though I have to work on the 29th and can’t really take the day off (I work in finance and it’s the last business day of the month), I do plan on watching the wedding – live, not later on the internet. Yes, I’m crazy, and yes, I’ll need lots of caffeine to work effectively the next day. But how many times does an opportunity like this come up?

I may or may not post my thoughts about the wedding, as I will likely be catching up on sleep. Mister probably won’t watch it with me, because boys just don’t get into weddings the way girls do (though I’m sure he’ll want to see the footage of Westminster Abbey and other royal locations). Just keep your fingers crossed that I can stay awake.