The Florida Report

As you probably know, I went to Florida to visit my sister and celebrate Mia’s 5th birthday. Here’s how my trip went:

Mia

Mia is adorable. Even though she hasn’t seen me in nearly 4 years, she had no issues accepting that I’m her Aunty. She was in bed when I got there, but her Dad handed me a card that she made me, and I got to hug her when I got up.

Mia’s in preschool now (since she turned 5 after the kindergarten cutoff) and doing really well. She loves school, but even at her young age would prefer to do anything but homework.

She enjoyed hanging out with me, and let me braid her hair one morning. She would randomly say, “I love you, Aunty” which is awesome. She does that to her parents and siblings too.

Mia’s birthday party was a typical 5-year-old’s party. Family and a few friends were there, and Mia tore through the presents so fast that I don’t even think she saw what they were.

Spike

My sister has a little Chihuahua with a huge ego. Spike acts like a big dog – so much so that after he launched himself at the sliding glass door while Sis and I were in the living room, I took to calling him Cujo. But once you get to know him and get him to calm down, he’s just a little cuddlebug.

Find Spike:

Where's Spike?

I had a hard time finding him too, until I went towards this corner and saw his tail start wagging.

Greta would not be happy to know that I held another dog while I was away. Despite all the fur, she was so excited at my return that she failed to notice another dog’s scent on me.

My Sister

Remember when my sister confronted her Senator about the job situation? She’s been out of work for well over 2 years.

Not anymore.

When I arrived on Thursday evening, Sis told me that I’d be hanging out at the house alone for a while on Friday because she had to go in to her new job orientation. Hooray! I didn’t mind being left alone, except I didn’t have a car so I was kinda stuck at the house. I picked up a rental car on Saturday for the rest of the trip, but also ended up leaving Monday morning instead of Tuesday afternoon as originally planned. After all, I did go out there to see the family, and since everyone would be working and my sister would be really stressed out after her first day, there was no reason for me to stay longer.

Also… I’m trying to be nice about this so I don’t start any family feuds, but I was a bit irritated at my sister’s habit of negativity. She complains a lot and I didn’t feel like she put enough energy into gratitude or positivity, so it was hard to be around her because of that. This isn’t anything new for her, but I have a tendency to forget how much it affects me when I haven’t seen her for some time. Cutting my trip short helped me keep my peace of mind, and I did stay long enough to be at Mia’s birthday party, so mission accomplished.

Allergies

Apparently I am allergic to Florida. By my 3rd full day there, my sinuses felt like they were killing me, despite taking two 12-hour decongestants and a handful of ibuprofen just a few hours apart. I didn’t sleep well Sunday night, and by Tuesday (I was home at this point) I had a full-blown chest cold. The last time I was sick was four years ago, just a couple of weeks after visiting my sister. Before that, I remember my allergies going berserk on my drive to Florida after I passed a grass-mowing operation on the highway near Ocala. I took so many decongestants to hide any evidence of sniffles so that I could get in the NICU to see Mia…

My last 3 visits to Florida have been in November, so it’s either something that’s current at that time of year, or something that lives all the time. At any rate, I’m not fond of being sick and not looking forward to visiting a suspected allergen again.

Greta

Greta was NOT happy that I was gone for so long. She knew that Mister and I left together one morning, and she knew that I didn’t return at my usual time in the evening. Mister had some luck comforting her the first day, but as my absence grew longer she wanted nothing to do with him. We think she blamed him for the fact that I wasn’t there. I don’t think it helped much when on my 2nd day gone, Mister put the phone on speaker so I could talk to Greta. He said she looked confused and a bit irritated at him that I had been reduced to a voice. For the rest of my trip, Mister couldn’t get near her for basic care like her eye drops, and she even refused to take handouts from him.

When I got home, Greta was so excited that as she was running around in circles as she usually does when I get home, she was bumping into all sorts of things, which is unusual. She also had a bigger than usual excitement piddle when we went outside for our greeting. After about an hour of me being home, all was right in her world and she even let Mister hold her. Unless I can take Greta with me, I don’t think I should leave her for more than one night. She’s obviously very attached to me and gets very depressed when I’m not around.

So that’s my trip. Not sure when I’ll get back to see my adorable niece, but on the other hand I’m glad I’m home.

Anglophelia

I’ve mentioned a few times that I’ve been to London. I haven’t been back in way too long, but I never lost my affection for all things British. Lucky for me, Mister shares my affinity for British culture. For example, BBC America is one of the top 5 channels watched on our TV, if we watch a movie there’s a good chance it will be British, and we even have cabinets that look like the old red telephone boxes to store our DVDs in:

Entertainment center

With the Royal Wedding coming up, I’ve been avidly reading any an all news I can about the wedding. And even though I have to work on the 29th and can’t really take the day off (I work in finance and it’s the last business day of the month), I do plan on watching the wedding – live, not later on the internet. Yes, I’m crazy, and yes, I’ll need lots of caffeine to work effectively the next day. But how many times does an opportunity like this come up?

I may or may not post my thoughts about the wedding, as I will likely be catching up on sleep. Mister probably won’t watch it with me, because boys just don’t get into weddings the way girls do (though I’m sure he’ll want to see the footage of Westminster Abbey and other royal locations). Just keep your fingers crossed that I can stay awake.

Weekend Photo

San Francisco 5-2007 040


This pictures is from the first time I touched the Pacific Ocean. Today, I’m thinking of the devastation in Japan, on the other side of that great wide ocean.

Weekend Photo

Bird Blenders


One of the first times Mister and I went up to northern California, we took a ton of pictures. As we were entering the Tehachapi Pass area on Highway 58 on our way back home, we got some good views of the wind farm, and I started taking pictures. Then, when I got Photoshop Elements installed on my computer, I started messing around with color levels and saturation and a bunch of other stuff I don’t understand. I kinda like how it came out.

I See London

A long time ago, when I was young and got to spend my hard-earned money on frivolous things like world travel, I went to Europe. I was having a quarter-life crisis and it was suggested to me that I spend some time travelling.

So I did.

My first trip to Europe was a big extravaganza. I visited Sweden, Paris, and London. I’ll write about Sweden and Paris another day. Today, I want to talk about London.

My first encounter with London was after a long day of travel. The Channel Tunnel was not yet complete, and rather than fly, I decided that I’d do something different. I took the train through the French countryside and then ferried across the English Channel. After that, I got on a train to London.

Trains are nice. I come from a long line of train geeks, and I must admit that I quite like them. They’re so much more relaxing than airplanes, and there’s room to stretch out.

The boat was another story. I didn’t know until then that Channel crossings are known for being rough. Let’s just say it’s a good thing I fell asleep, because the other alternative was losing my lunch.

I arrived at Victoria Station not quite knowing where to go, but I figured it out. I took the Tube to Oxford Circus, because I wanted to stay at the YHA Oxford Street hostel. Yeah, I did the whole youth hostel thing, and it was a lot of fun.

When I got to Oxford Circus, I knew I wanted to walk east on Oxford Street. Being from the East Coast of the US, I associated east with the Atlantic Ocean, and started walking towards that. I realized my mistake after only a block, so I didn’t get too lost. Being tired, hungry, and a bit seasick is not good for my navigational skills.

I got to the hostel and encountered Cat. It seemed like I had interrupted a party, but she was cool. She told me they were booked up, but when she was checking a nearby hostel for available beds, she suddenly remembered that she had a cancellation not too long before that. Luckily, I got to stay. I dumped my stuff in my room, grabbed some food at the nearby Burger King, and joined the party in the lounge, where I met other people from around the world and had a bit too much to drink. Woohoo! Welcome to London!

I spent most of my days out and about, doing the whole tourist thing, then partied at the hostel in the evenings. I had a grand old time in London, which is how it should be.

I went back a year later, full of boredom and wanderlust. I stayed at the same hostel, but Cat was gone. I still met plenty of interesting people.

Another year or so later, my college roommate and I went to London. We also visited Edinburgh, York, and Bath, but London was and always will be my favourite.

When I first arrived in London, there was something familiar about it. I don’t know if it was all the British movies and TV that I watched, or the British home decorating magazines that I spent a fortune on, or the fact that I had just spent the last 2 1/2 weeks in countries where I couldn’t speak the language, but London felt like home to me – almost like I had been there before. I don’t recall encountering any real culture shock there. I didn’t even have any trouble looking right to cross the street, to the point that I almost got hit by a motorbike on a one-way street, where I should have looked left (the American way). Everything about London felt natural.

I did all the tourist things – Tower of London, V&A, Harrod’s, Piccadilly Circus, Leicester Square, open-top bus tours, Covent Garden, Museum of London, London Transport Museum, Greenwich, Buckingham Palace and the Mall, and lots and lots of walking. I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of it. The Museum of London was a great bargain and I got to learn a lot about the history of London (even though I had to dodge hundreds of obnoxious schoolchildren), and I had a few perfect peaceful moments in Covent Garden one Sunday afternoon, listening to some grunge rock band in one ear and a string quartet play Pachelbel’s Canon in D in the other.

I also spent time at “ordinary” places – Tesco, Boots, John Lewis, and many other shops and restaurants. I love getting a feel for a place by hanging with the locals like that.

I love the accent, and don’t have any issues understanding anyone. Of course, I didn’t come across anyone with a strong Cockney accent, so I can go on believing that I understand Londoners perfectly.

I haven’t travelled much since buying a condo, selling it, and moving to Las Vegas. I wish I could.

Mister wants to visit London someday. He gets goosebumps watching shows about London on the History Channel. If we ever get a chance to go, my only fear is that he will refuse to come back to the US with me. He’ll like it that much.

In the meantime, we’ll watch BBC America and visit the local British-style pub for some proper food as we dream about all the things we’ll do when we finally get to take that London holiday.

And because I couldn’t leave this post without just one picture…

Hey, look kids!

Big Ben