As you probably know, I went to Florida to visit my sister and celebrate Mia’s 5th birthday. Here’s how my trip went:
Mia
Mia is adorable. Even though she hasn’t seen me in nearly 4 years, she had no issues accepting that I’m her Aunty. She was in bed when I got there, but her Dad handed me a card that she made me, and I got to hug her when I got up.
Mia’s in preschool now (since she turned 5 after the kindergarten cutoff) and doing really well. She loves school, but even at her young age would prefer to do anything but homework.
She enjoyed hanging out with me, and let me braid her hair one morning. She would randomly say, “I love you, Aunty” which is awesome. She does that to her parents and siblings too.
Mia’s birthday party was a typical 5-year-old’s party. Family and a few friends were there, and Mia tore through the presents so fast that I don’t even think she saw what they were.

Spike
My sister has a little Chihuahua with a huge ego. Spike acts like a big dog – so much so that after he launched himself at the sliding glass door while Sis and I were in the living room, I took to calling him Cujo. But once you get to know him and get him to calm down, he’s just a little cuddlebug.
Find Spike:

Where's Spike?
I had a hard time finding him too, until I went towards this corner and saw his tail start wagging.
Greta would not be happy to know that I held another dog while I was away. Despite all the fur, she was so excited at my return that she failed to notice another dog’s scent on me.
My Sister
Remember when my sister confronted her Senator about the job situation? She’s been out of work for well over 2 years.
Not anymore.
When I arrived on Thursday evening, Sis told me that I’d be hanging out at the house alone for a while on Friday because she had to go in to her new job orientation. Hooray! I didn’t mind being left alone, except I didn’t have a car so I was kinda stuck at the house. I picked up a rental car on Saturday for the rest of the trip, but also ended up leaving Monday morning instead of Tuesday afternoon as originally planned. After all, I did go out there to see the family, and since everyone would be working and my sister would be really stressed out after her first day, there was no reason for me to stay longer.
Also… I’m trying to be nice about this so I don’t start any family feuds, but I was a bit irritated at my sister’s habit of negativity. She complains a lot and I didn’t feel like she put enough energy into gratitude or positivity, so it was hard to be around her because of that. This isn’t anything new for her, but I have a tendency to forget how much it affects me when I haven’t seen her for some time. Cutting my trip short helped me keep my peace of mind, and I did stay long enough to be at Mia’s birthday party, so mission accomplished.
Allergies
Apparently I am allergic to Florida. By my 3rd full day there, my sinuses felt like they were killing me, despite taking two 12-hour decongestants and a handful of ibuprofen just a few hours apart. I didn’t sleep well Sunday night, and by Tuesday (I was home at this point) I had a full-blown chest cold. The last time I was sick was four years ago, just a couple of weeks after visiting my sister. Before that, I remember my allergies going berserk on my drive to Florida after I passed a grass-mowing operation on the highway near Ocala. I took so many decongestants to hide any evidence of sniffles so that I could get in the NICU to see Mia…
My last 3 visits to Florida have been in November, so it’s either something that’s current at that time of year, or something that lives all the time. At any rate, I’m not fond of being sick and not looking forward to visiting a suspected allergen again.
Greta
Greta was NOT happy that I was gone for so long. She knew that Mister and I left together one morning, and she knew that I didn’t return at my usual time in the evening. Mister had some luck comforting her the first day, but as my absence grew longer she wanted nothing to do with him. We think she blamed him for the fact that I wasn’t there. I don’t think it helped much when on my 2nd day gone, Mister put the phone on speaker so I could talk to Greta. He said she looked confused and a bit irritated at him that I had been reduced to a voice. For the rest of my trip, Mister couldn’t get near her for basic care like her eye drops, and she even refused to take handouts from him.
When I got home, Greta was so excited that as she was running around in circles as she usually does when I get home, she was bumping into all sorts of things, which is unusual. She also had a bigger than usual excitement piddle when we went outside for our greeting. After about an hour of me being home, all was right in her world and she even let Mister hold her. Unless I can take Greta with me, I don’t think I should leave her for more than one night. She’s obviously very attached to me and gets very depressed when I’m not around.
So that’s my trip. Not sure when I’ll get back to see my adorable niece, but on the other hand I’m glad I’m home.










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