That’s My Sister!

My sister was on the news the other day.

Most people who know her would think, oh great, what’s she done now? But this was a happy accident.

Sis was at the Shell Factory with my niece, and Mia, being Mia, was all over the place. Shari was trying to keep Mia under control and was near a back entrance when she saw Senator Rubio holding a press conference after his town hall meeting. She listened to what he was saying, and didn’t like it, so she said, “No, no, no” more to herself than anyone else.

Well, the media hounds heard this so they all turned on her to ask what she thought, so she told them. She’s been looking for work for a few years now, as a medical assistant, and can’t find anything. Mia asking the Senator if he wanted to hear what she wants for Christmas was a great soundbyte too – because Shari can’t really do anything for Christmas.

I’m proud of the way my sister handled herself and how she managed to ask the Senator directly what he was doing for people like her. It’s not an opportunity that most voters get.

Puppy Love

Even after a full year of having Greta, it’s still all the little things about her that amaze me and make me smile on a daily basis. I mentioned that she has her quirks, but they’re not all related to her previous traumas.

She definitely loves to watch Mister eat and even though I’m undoubtedly her favorite human, if he and I are eating at the same time she will sit by him until she’s satisfied that there’s not a morsel left that she might be able to capture. And she’s already proven that she’ll do anything for a chance to eat human food.

Last week, after I’d been asleep for about an hour, I heard Greta jump off the bed so I woke up. At first I tried to get her to jump back in bed, but she wasn’t having it. She just kept staring at the door. I figured she’d want to go potty so I opened the bedroom door. Instead of running downstairs, Greta rushed into the office – the next room over – to find Mister eating an ice cream novelty. Apparently she heard him unwrapping it and decided that she had to get herself some human food. I just said, “Give me a freaking break” and went back to bed, but Mister told me that she started at him while he ate his snack, went outside, then came back upstairs and jumped back into bed with me. All I know is that she was curled up in bed next to me when my alarm went off way too early.

I also love how Greta greets me when I come home from work, Saturday shopping, or taking the trash out. Have you ever seen those videos showing soldiers coming home after many months and their dogs going absolutely berserk with excitement? That’s Greta every single time I come home. She starts barking as soon as she hears the garage door open, and I walk into the house to see her wiggling her butt in the air. As I walk further into the house, she starts running in circles – around me, around the coffee table, up the stairs and down again, etc. as we make our way to the back door. When we got Greta, she’d get excitement incontinence so taking her outside upon arriving home became a ritual.

After letting Greta get her greet on, we go back inside. I walk through the human-sized opening, while Greta rockets through the doggie door and up the stairs. Then she sits at the top of the stairs waiting for me to come up. Sometimes I don’t go upstairs right away, and if she hears me sit on the sofa she’ll come running back down the stairs to tackle me where I sit. If I do go upstairs, I see her on the top step, wiggling her butt in the air, jumping in circles. She’s silly like that.

Sometimes I find dog hairs on my shirt when I’m at work. This always makes me smile because I got doggie hugs before I left.

When I get out Greta’s harness, it’s a signal to her that we’re going out. She doesn’t care if it’s a walk in the park or a visit to the vet, she’s excited because it means that when I leave the house, she gets to come with me. Sometimes it’s nearly impossible to put the harness on because she’s pawing at it with frantic excitement.

I used positive reinforcement when trying to housebreak Greta, so even though we have the doggie door and I don’t have to accompany her on her bathroom breaks, she still comes running to me when she comes in the house, looking for praise.

I love that Greta is always happy to see me. It’s pretty much impossible to be sad or upset when I’ve got that cute doggie butt wagging in the air. It was Mister’s idea to get a dog, and I’m sure glad we did. There’s nothing like a pup who loves you.

One Year Later

One year ago today, Mister and I adopted Greta. We don’t know when her actual birthday is, so we’ll celebrate it today. October 15, 2010 was the first day of her brand new life, after all.

It’s been amazing watching Greta come out of her shell and become the dog she is today. I remember going to the shelter with eyes on another little guy, but he was too rambunctious for me. Then I suggested this shy little girl – named Lizzie at the shelter – and she seemed to get comfortable in my arms really fast. She seemed to know that I was a person that would love and protect her instead of yelling at her and hitting her. The shelter told us she was a puppy mill rescue who was adopted out and returned 9 months later for “not bonding” and “barking too much”. In the few minutes that I had her in my arms, she seemed to bond with me just fine. And we found out she doesn’t bark very often at all – mostly when I come home, before I actually enter the house, and when Mister has food – but she doesn’t bark all day and night, which is nice.

We took her home, had some trying moments with housetraining, dry eye, seizures, mind tricks, and more. But it’s all been worth it, every single bit. Greta makes me smile every day because she does silly doggy things, and she goes absolutely crazy when I come home from work, running around in circles until I take her outside so she can properly greet me. She’s a lovey dog, but still skittish because of her past.

Of course I don’t know exactly what Greta’s been through and only have what I’ve been told to go by. It’s apparent that she had been abused. I remember one day, not long after we go her, I was out in the backyard with her and went to scratch an itch on the back of my calf. You know how sometimes you’ll do that by using your foot? Well, Greta saw my foot move up off the ground and jumped back quite a bit. I had to forget my own discomfort and crouch down so she’d come to me and learn that I wasn’t going to hurt her. So somewhere along the way she learned that human foot off the ground = ouchie for Greta. Also, she is very sensitive to people’s moods. When Mister is playing his game and gets agitated, Greta leaves the room. She can’t handle anything that might resemble anger, probably because she thinks that angry human = ouchie for Greta.

In my travels on the internet this past week, I came across a blog post about Petland USA selling puppy mill dogs. That post led me to this one about the Blog the Change movement to publicize the deplorable conditions at puppy mills and urging pet stores like Petland USA to stop selling these poor animals. Right away I knew that the best way to honor Greta’s birthday would be to blog about it myself. Puppy mills raise dogs for profit, not companionship, and the conditions are often deplorable. Dogs are forced to breed and when they’re no longer useful, they are killed. They don’t receive adequate veterinary care and live in crowded cages. Please follow the links in this paragraph and do your part to stop supporting puppy mills.

Like I said, Greta was originally rescued from a puppy mill. We don’t know her exact age. The shelter told us 3 years old, but the vet thought she was at least 4 or 5 when I first brought her in last year. It’s obvious she’s had a few litters, because her nipples are permanently enlarged and she has a saggy belly, which to me show that she’s had multiple litters with little chance for exercise, and our vet concurs with this opinion. She’s also afraid of pretty much everything, and while she doesn’t freak out quite as much as she used to when she’s afraid, she’ll never grow out of her fear. I read an article on this study that delves into the psychological issues that puppy mill dogs can have, even long after their rescue.

Today, Greta is a happy, mostly well adjusted dog. She still has her moments, and probably will for the rest of her life, but I think she quite enjoys the life she has now. I’m sure that if she spoke human, Greta would want me to tell you all to boycott puppy mills and the organizations that keep them in business, and to support animal rescue organizations instead.

Please join this blog hop by putting a post on your blog about the puppy mill issue and telling Petland USA to stop selling puppies and kittens.

Gray Gray Go Away

When you get to be my age, your hair starts changing color. In my case, it’s going from a wonderful bright red to white. All this white that’s coming in at my temples and cowlicks is making my hair seem a bit dull. So I decided to do something about it.

I’m cheap, and even though I have a great hairdresser who can do color as well, I figured for this go-around I’d try to find a semi-permanent color to try it out. Do you know how hard it is to find semi-perm color in a drugstore? Also, do you know how hard it is to find anything close to my shade of red in a drugstore? It’s not easy at all.

But, I was in Ulta, that great wanna-be hybrid of Sephora and a drugstore cosmetics aisle, when I found this: Umberto Beverly Hills U Color 8.43 – Light Copper Gold.* Since it was a reasonable price, and it looked like it was as close to my shade as I was going to find, I grabbed it.

After waiting a week (due to time issues, aka laziness) I finally went for it. I secured an old towel as a cape, put on the gloves, and cut open the packets as directed. Then I just started randomly dumping the stuff on my hair with one hand and trying to mix it in with the other. It may be a DIY kind of thing, but I might have better luck with a brush/bowl next time – and the kit does come with a brush so you have a choice.

I scrubbed the stuff in and waited the requisite amount of time before rinsing, then I put my cape/towel on my head to absorb the dripping. Even though my hair was darker because it was wet, I could see a difference on the tiny bit of hair that was showing. The instructions included washing and conditioning, so I took a shower.

When I got out of the shower, again I had a towel on my head.Now my normal hair styling routine is pretty lackluster. I have wavy/curly hair, and anyone with this kind of hair knows that it pretty much has a mind of its own. My hairdresser is great because her hair is the same way and she doesn’t try to fight it, which a lot of stylists want to do. Anyway, since my hair has a mind of its own and I have no talent for making it do anything I want, I don’t own a blowdryer. I just throw some curly hair mousse in it, make sure nothing is sticking up really weird, and walk away. The more I try to do something the worse it looks, so I learned a long time ago that I shouldn’t try.

I went about my day, going out for a little bit, and when I got home I looked in the mirror again since my hair was dry. The verdict? I love it. It’s very close to my natural color (the ones that still have color, that is) and it’s a lot brighter and shinier. Since it’s demi-permanent it’s a lot gentler on hair and it doesn’t stink like permanent hair color does. It’s supposed to fade out over about a month, but I think it might last a bit longer and I’ll wait until my hair is unbearably dull before using the other packet. There are 2 applications in the box so it’s like getting a 2 for 1.

So does anyone dye their hair red with at-home hair color or know anyone who does? Did you like the results?

*This is an affiliate link, but I was not compensated in any way for the product or this blog post. I paid for it out of my own pocket and all opinions are 100% my own.

Homesick

I hate this time of year in Las Vegas. Sure, it’s not so blazing hot anymore and I can go outside without fear of bursting into flames. We’ve had some really cool temps and rain this past week, and the air is crisp and cool and – dare I say it – smells fresh instead of the usual dusty and stale. I’ve been sleeping with the window open a bit and cuddling under the blankets.

The other day, as I drove home, it was raining. It wasn’t a quickly passing thunderstorm that floods one block, as Vegas usually gets. This was a regular old rain, falling on most of the city. At a stoplight I closed my eyes for a second and I could see trees with colorful leaves, clapboard houses with fall decorations on their front porches, and I could almost smell the hot apple cider. But then I opened them again and saw idiot drivers, rows upon rows of lookalike stucco houses with their entrances hiding behind giant garage doors, and sagebrush blowing in the wind. What a letdown.

This is the time of year that is the absolute hardest to be away from New England. Autumn is my absolute favorite season. Things get cozy again after a hot, humid summer, kids go back to school and everyone’s still excited about it, and the holidays start coming up in rapid succession, giving us a lot to look forward to. And holidays, of course, mean family – a family that I am over 2500 miles away from, making it expensive and inconvenient to see them when I most want to.

Right now I’m sitting in front of my computer in my bland stucco house, enjoying the cool air, missing my family, the excitement of fall – my home. I keep thinking about where to go when I finally do move out of Vegas, and every year at this time I think about returning home. Maybe one day I finally will.