My Childhood Home

My childhood home


This is my childhood home. Or, what’s left of it. My dad is knocking it down to build a new, sturdier house.

He bought the house in 1980, when I was six. We moved in just before I started first grade, and we still had time left in the summer to enjoy the 20×40 ft inground pool in the backyard, with its slide and diving board providing hours of fun.

I was excited because not only was this house a lot bigger than the old house, it had stairs, and my room was upstairs. The yard was huge, over an acre, with lots of trees, bushes, and even some hills for sledding. I spent a lot of time up in the trees, and we, along with the neighbor kids, built a treehouse in a tree by the pool. It was a fun yard to play in.

There’s a garage, and it’s pretty neat because there are 2 levels. There’s the upper driveway and upper garage, which is seen in the photo, and to the right of that, a concrete cliff and a grassy area separate a lower driveway, which leads to the lower garage. My dad plows snow off the cliff, and my sister and I used to make the best snow forts there – when we weren’t just jumping off it.

When we moved in, every room was wallpapered. This paper was in my bedroom:

Wallpaper


I was pretty excited when I came across that online – it brought back tons of memories! I remember using my finger to trace a path across the hills that never seemed to end. There was also a bright pink carpet in my room. Not sure why I picked that room, considering how I feel about pink.

Eventually my dad and stepmom started putting their own touches on the house. They knocked down the walls between the dining room and back porch, creating one big room at the front of the house. Before the big remodel, Kathy drew on the walls to make it interesting. We had a fireplace and built-in bookshelves for awhile – all drawn, of course.

When I was in middle school, my sister and I moved into the cellar for the big remodel. The cellar was a bit creepy, with low pipes and no headroom, and lots of cobwebs. We used to joke the the cobwebs were holding up the house. During the remodel, walls came down, beams went up to support what the walls used to, the lathe and plaster came down and new drywall went up. New flooring throughout the house, and a new bathroom was built upstairs in what used to be a storage closet/playroom. That gave the house 2 full baths, in addition to the ancient half bath in the cellar that had cobwebs everywhere.

The house was built in 1925, and whoever built it left out a major piece: the central support beam in the cellar. By the time we got it, the house was sagging a bit, and continued to sag as time went on. It’s really a good thing that Dad’s building a new one, because no one wants to worry about weight limits in their house or panic if someone jumps.

It will be weird next time I go to visit. The house I grew up in, that’s been Home for 30 years, is gone, The yard is the same, except for the trees in the front yard that had to come down to make room for the bulldozer. But the house will be different. I won’t know where the bathroom is, or a cup so I can get myself some water. It’s going to be different.

But it will be good too. It will still be home.

In Which I Meet Other Bloggers

It all started with a tweet. Then there was a blog post. I left a comment that basically said, “I’d like to, but I’m a wimp when it comes to meeting people so I’ll pass.” Adam emailed me to say that I should come. So, I bit the bullet and said I’d be there.

It was fun – once I got past the room-spinning, heart beating in my throat feeling. Bloggers are nice people. Also, bloggers don’t think it’s rude if you whip out your cell phone to tweet. I checked Twitter and followed my new friends, but actually didn’t tweet while I was out.

We had dinner at Yolo’s at Planet Hollywood to celebrate Red Lotus Mama’s 30-something birthday. I met her, Lexi and Marco, Countess Mo, Sarahndipitea, and the famous Avitable. There were other people there – I didn’t get all their names or Twitter handles, but they were all really nice.

After dinner, we went to Avitable’s suite for cupcakes. It was a birthday, and the rules say there must be cake of some sort. Countess Mo came with me since she could get me into the rooms area, which was really nice because I would never have found it on my own. We piled into the room, where everyone sat around eating cupcakes, drinking, chatting, and of course tweeting.

I was worried that people would think I wasn’t having fun, but really, I was. I’m not the most social creature when you meet me in person, so I’m usually content to spend my time listening to everyone else’s conversations. If it’s one on one, I do a lot better conversationally. I did have fun – this was my first time meeting other bloggers, people who get it when it comes to putting your life on the internet, and I enjoyed it. I’d like to meet more bloggers next time they’re in town.

And now, some pictures:

Me & @redlotusmama
Me & Red Lotus Mama – the birthday girl

Me & @countessmo
Me & Countess Mo

Me & @avitable
Me & Avitable

What’s That Smell?

Wednesday night, well after I had fallen asleep, Mister came in to ask me if one of the lotions & potions that I put on my face at night smelled funky. I wasn’t sure what he was talking about, but as I came to, I smelled it.

It was a plasticky smell that I can only describe as The Original Band-Aid Smell.

I tried to fall asleep after that, but the smell issue was bothering me. I got up and went into the home office, where the smell was noticeably worse. It seemed to be pretty limited to the office, so we set about searching for and eliminating possible sources of the smell.

I shut down my computer. Mister shut down the laptop. He shut off the ceiling fan just as I let one rip. Eventually the smells started dissipating, so we were able to get closer to the source of the original smell.

Mister took the cover off my PC, and we think we found the source. We blew out all the dust bunnies, and Mister started feeling around. The power supply was HOT.

It looked like I needed a new power supply.

I went to the electronics megamart after work yesterday to buy a new one. Mister installed it for me, and all seems to be good now. Hopefully it will stay good.

I guess that’s the price I pay for being an internet addict.

Encyclopedia of Me – P is for Pen Pals

Does anyone remember having pen pals?

In the days before the internet, the way to stay in touch with people inexpensively was to write letters. I had gotten myself some pen pals, organized through an exchange in Teen Magazine (if I remember correctly).

One was Michelle, who lived in the French-speaking part of Switzerland. We corresponded mostly in French, since it was one of my subjects in school and a good way for me to practice. Michelle and I sent a few packages back and forth – I sent her some typical American goodies like Spahettios, Jell-o, and the recipe for PB&J sandwiches. I also filled up a cassette tape of programming from a popular radio station. She did the same for me, and sent magazines as well. I’m sure there were more goodies exchanged, but I can’t remember them at this time.

I wanted to visit Michelle when I was in Europe the first time. I had her telephone number and called, but she wasn’t at home. I could have decided to go to her town, but instead continued on to London. It would have been nice to meet her. We fell out of touch shortly after that.

Karen was another pen pal, an American this time. We corresponded all through high school and college, but it tapered off after we got out into the “real world”. I did get to visit her, flying to her part of the country for a long weekend. It was a bit freaky, flying so far to meet someone I didn’t even know, but as a woman at the airport told me, “You already do know each other – you’ve met through your letters.”

Karen and I recently reconnected on Facebook (what a wonderful website when used in that way!) and I was delighted to see what she’s been up to. While the letters don’t flow anymore (stamp? What’s a stamp?), it’s nice to keep up with faraway people, those I’ve met and those I haven’t.

Blogging Pet Peeves: Feeds

I don’t hate feeds – on the contrary, they are a wonderfully convenient way to keep up with all my favorite blogs. I discussed that in my post Feed Me What? I do have a few pet peeves that have to do with feeds, though.

Partial feeds

If you use a feed reader at all, you’ve seen them – the first few lines of a post. To read the full post, you need to click over to the blog. I know why bloggers do this – they want the traffic. They think that providing a partial feed will make everyone visit their site, therefore driving up their visitor numbers. People who only read your through a reader don’t count towards the number of hits your blog gets, and if you have any ad on your blog, this will affect your income.

I think it’s a bit of false reasoning.

There are so many people out there who will flat-out refuse to subscribe to blogs that offer partial feeds. I’m one of them – most of the time. There are only 2 blogs I subscribe to that have partial feeds, and one of them is a friend. The other one, honestly, I can do without in my reader but I enjoy the content. If you read all the blogging tips out there, you’ll see the advice to offer full feeds to increase your readership. If you are tech savvy enough (I’m not) then you can find a way to offer a choice, because there is a small handful of those who prefer partial feeds. But if you have to pick one, go for the full feed. If your posts are compelling enough, people will click over to comment.

Blogroll feed links
This one really bugged me. Often times, I will linksurf by clicking on the links in someone’s blogroll. I came across one blog that had the feed links on their blogroll rather than a direct link to the blog. There are a few reasons why this bugged me.

  • Link love – if you want to give some link love to the blogs you read, you aren’t helping them by linking to their feed.
  • Snobby – it’s awfully presumptuous to assume that people will want to subscribe to every blog you read without checking it out for themselves first.
  • Annoying – if I’m clicking an external link on your blog, it means I want to check out the site. If I see a subscribe page come up, then I need to do a bit of finagling to get to the actual blog. Less tech-savvy readers might not know how to do this.
  • You’ll lose readers – the blog that I had this experience on was one that I might have considered subscribing to or at least coming back to. Since linksurfing was such an annoying experience for me, I ended up closing that blog without any intentions of visiting again. If anyone out there is the least bit like me, then think of the potential readers you’re losing by doing this.

We all blog because we get a certain amount of enjoyment out of it, and we want people who visit our blogs to enjoy it as well. If you make decisions like the ones outlined above that end up annoying people, they won’t visit. Bloggers are very quick to dismiss a blog if certain usability issues bother them, no matter how much they enjoy the content. If you actually like some of the things that I’ve outlined in this Pet Peeve, that’s fine, but please go with the general consensus of what people like if you want your readers to enjoy your blog.

Do these feed issues annoy you as much as they do me? What other pet peeves do you have when it comes to blogs?