I See London

A long time ago, when I was young and got to spend my hard-earned money on frivolous things like world travel, I went to Europe. I was having a quarter-life crisis and it was suggested to me that I spend some time travelling.

So I did.

My first trip to Europe was a big extravaganza. I visited Sweden, Paris, and London. I’ll write about Sweden and Paris another day. Today, I want to talk about London.

My first encounter with London was after a long day of travel. The Channel Tunnel was not yet complete, and rather than fly, I decided that I’d do something different. I took the train through the French countryside and then ferried across the English Channel. After that, I got on a train to London.

Trains are nice. I come from a long line of train geeks, and I must admit that I quite like them. They’re so much more relaxing than airplanes, and there’s room to stretch out.

The boat was another story. I didn’t know until then that Channel crossings are known for being rough. Let’s just say it’s a good thing I fell asleep, because the other alternative was losing my lunch.

I arrived at Victoria Station not quite knowing where to go, but I figured it out. I took the Tube to Oxford Circus, because I wanted to stay at the YHA Oxford Street hostel. Yeah, I did the whole youth hostel thing, and it was a lot of fun.

When I got to Oxford Circus, I knew I wanted to walk east on Oxford Street. Being from the East Coast of the US, I associated east with the Atlantic Ocean, and started walking towards that. I realized my mistake after only a block, so I didn’t get too lost. Being tired, hungry, and a bit seasick is not good for my navigational skills.

I got to the hostel and encountered Cat. It seemed like I had interrupted a party, but she was cool. She told me they were booked up, but when she was checking a nearby hostel for available beds, she suddenly remembered that she had a cancellation not too long before that. Luckily, I got to stay. I dumped my stuff in my room, grabbed some food at the nearby Burger King, and joined the party in the lounge, where I met other people from around the world and had a bit too much to drink. Woohoo! Welcome to London!

I spent most of my days out and about, doing the whole tourist thing, then partied at the hostel in the evenings. I had a grand old time in London, which is how it should be.

I went back a year later, full of boredom and wanderlust. I stayed at the same hostel, but Cat was gone. I still met plenty of interesting people.

Another year or so later, my college roommate and I went to London. We also visited Edinburgh, York, and Bath, but London was and always will be my favourite.

When I first arrived in London, there was something familiar about it. I don’t know if it was all the British movies and TV that I watched, or the British home decorating magazines that I spent a fortune on, or the fact that I had just spent the last 2 1/2 weeks in countries where I couldn’t speak the language, but London felt like home to me – almost like I had been there before. I don’t recall encountering any real culture shock there. I didn’t even have any trouble looking right to cross the street, to the point that I almost got hit by a motorbike on a one-way street, where I should have looked left (the American way). Everything about London felt natural.

I did all the tourist things – Tower of London, V&A, Harrod’s, Piccadilly Circus, Leicester Square, open-top bus tours, Covent Garden, Museum of London, London Transport Museum, Greenwich, Buckingham Palace and the Mall, and lots and lots of walking. I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of it. The Museum of London was a great bargain and I got to learn a lot about the history of London (even though I had to dodge hundreds of obnoxious schoolchildren), and I had a few perfect peaceful moments in Covent Garden one Sunday afternoon, listening to some grunge rock band in one ear and a string quartet play Pachelbel’s Canon in D in the other.

I also spent time at “ordinary” places – Tesco, Boots, John Lewis, and many other shops and restaurants. I love getting a feel for a place by hanging with the locals like that.

I love the accent, and don’t have any issues understanding anyone. Of course, I didn’t come across anyone with a strong Cockney accent, so I can go on believing that I understand Londoners perfectly.

I haven’t travelled much since buying a condo, selling it, and moving to Las Vegas. I wish I could.

Mister wants to visit London someday. He gets goosebumps watching shows about London on the History Channel. If we ever get a chance to go, my only fear is that he will refuse to come back to the US with me. He’ll like it that much.

In the meantime, we’ll watch BBC America and visit the local British-style pub for some proper food as we dream about all the things we’ll do when we finally get to take that London holiday.

And because I couldn’t leave this post without just one picture…

Hey, look kids!

Big Ben

Blogging Mistakes – Posting Too Soon

Last week, as I finished composing my Personal Blogging Crusader post, I planned on having it publish in the morning. I’ve noticed recently that posting first thing in the morning helps bring more people to my blog, as opposed to posting on a Friday night when readers might actually get a life for the weekend and skip reading blogs, and I like it when people read my blog. Anyway, it’s easy to schedule a post in both WordPress and Blogger, and I’m sure other blogging platforms allow this as well.

This wouldn’t have normally been a problem, except the second I hit “Publish” a number of things happen. My feed is picked up, so those who read through an RSS reader, which I explain in my old post Feed Me What? can see it. Not only does my blog post become available to read in your favorite reader, but a link to the new post also goes out to Twitter and Facebook – setting these all up automatically are easy ways to get the word out about new posts on your blog.

As soon as I realized my mistake, I in my infinite wisdom had to go and make it worse. I didn’t think this through until I looked at my stats later (yes, I’m a stats whore, but that doesn’t mean you should be too). I edited the post to update the posting date and time, which took it off the front page of my blog and gave people a “404 Page Not Found” message if they tried to click the link. I did post in Twitter and Facebook about making the mistake and said that the post would be available the next morning, but my feed reader did not update when the post was published at the scheduled time – that only went out the first time. I know this because I subscribe to my own blog, and you should too – that way you know what readers are seeing – whether or not they can see your photos, etc.

I noticed when checking my stats that I had people clicking over almost immediately, but I had already edited the post to publish later, so it wasn’t showing up on my blog. I wonder how many readers didn’t get to see my post because of this, or how many just aren’t going to take my new personal blogging venture seriously?

As personal bloggers, there are many reasons why you might not want to publish something right away. Perhaps you are going on vacation and don’t want the world to know you’re not home until after you’ve already returned (good safety tip, btw). Perhaps you have a big announcement to be released at a certain time. Or perhaps you just want to do all your writing on one day and do minor blog maintenance, such as replying to comments, during the week so you can have a life. In any case, scheduling posts is a great tool to use. But I would caution you to make sure you’ve got everything ready to go before hitting the button. You could end up spoiling a surprise or disappointing people. For personal bloggers, a lot of those readers are virtual friends, and I don’t know about you, but I feel bad when I slam the door in my friends’ faces like that.

Next time I accidentally hit publish too soon, I’m going to leave it. I think that will have a much better effect than trying to backtrack the way I did.

Bambi

Meet Bambi.

Bambi


Bambi is actually no longer with is – she passed away not long after I finished high school. But Bambi was one of those dogs that will live in our memories for generations. I think every family that has pets, specifically dogs, has a dog like this. The legendary pet.

Bambi was born in a junkyard to a German shepherd that no one could get near and a Great Dane that just happened to be hanging around one day. Bambi also had a sister named Jaws. The two puppies quickly developed their own personalities, and got names to match.

Jaws would always clamp her jaws on to my Dad’s pants leg, and he’d have to drag her around. She never bit, but she also never let go. Bambi was a lot gentler – she was the kind of dog that always behaved herself. She never wandered out of the yard (Jaws got hit by a car), and she had a freaky intelligence level for a dog.

Bambi lived at my Dad’s garage for awhile, but after Jaws died we brought Bambi home. She ended up getting it on with Rascal, the one who had a thing for fireworks, and had a litter of 12 puppies. That’s a lot of puppies! She was a very good mama dog, and we ended up having 3 puppies die of parvo, gave away 8, and kept one. The idea was that the puppy we kept would be the watchdog at the garage, but since Chippy wasn’t too smart (not as smart as Bambi and a lot smarter than Rascal), we decided to take Bambi to the garage. It was certainly the right move.

My Dad’s garage is in a small town. There’s not much crime action, so on their nightly rounds the local police would come by and check the doors. Ever the good watchdog, Bambi thought they were trying to break in. (The real thieves just took cars off the lot and never came near the building.) Bambi developed a sixth sense for cops – she could smell one a mile away. My uncle – a police chief – would come in on his day off, driving his own car and wearing civilian clothing, and Bambi would be growling a low, steady growl from the minute he pulled up. The cops in town didn’t like her because of this, but the never figured out that it was their own fault.

Despite her disdain for officers of the law, Bambi was very good with other customers. She was a big dog, and when customers came in with their children, the kids would pet her too hard, pull her tail, and sometimes even try to ride her. She knew not to hurt the kids, so she took it all until she could make her escape.

There are some dogs that will fetch a ball or sticks, but Bambi would fetch rocks. Yep, rocks. Beaver Brook runs right behind Dad’s garage, and would often run low enough to make a small beach area. Bambi loved to go to the river – just the word “river” would get her barking excitedly. My sister and I would toss a rock into the shallowest part of the water, and she’d stick her nose in the water and fetch the rock out. Sometimes it took her a few seconds longer than usual, but she was fine – she blew bubbles out her nose and kept hunting. Occasionally the river would flood up, and I remember the first time it came right up to the back door. Bambi loved that – the river came to her. She was in heaven!

She also knew who hurt her. One night, one of my Dad’s friends was working late and forgot to check for Bambi before locking up. She ended up spending the night outside in the rain, which didn’t make her feel too good. (Big dogs tend to get hip dysplasia, which is similar to arthritis but affects their hind quarters.) The next morning, the garage was closed but I went with my dad to feed her, and we quickly figured out that she was outside. We dried her off, turned on the heater, and fed and comforted her. A few days later, that friend came back in and Bambi started growling at him. She knew who was responsible for causing her all that discomfort!

The vet told my Dad to give Bambi a single aspirin tablet to help the discomfort of her hip dysplasia. Every day, Dad would give Bambi a cup of dry kibble, a big can of wet food, and an aspirin buried deep inside the wet food. Bambi would eat everything – except the aspirin. When she was done eating, I’d go in the kitchen to find her bowl, licked clean, with a single aspirin tablet at the bottom of it, also licked clean. We could never get her to take one.

I’ve had a few dogs growing up – JoJo, Rascal, Bambi, and Chippy – but if I had to choose one dog that could live forever, it would be Bambi. She was smart, well behaved, and a great companion. I don’t have any pets now, and it will be hard to top Bambi should I decide to get a dog again. She was that legendary.

My Car is Driving Me to Drink

Remember when I wrecked my Kia? Then I bought a fairly new car from my Dad in New Hampshire and drove it all over the country? Then less than a year after having the thing (and while it was still under warranty), I needed major repairs? My 2005 Ford Focus (Ford being an acronym for Found On Road Dead ) drove me crazy but my wonderful husband (who was then my boyfriend) helped keep me from going absolutely bat-shit crazy.

I’m about to go absolutely bat-shit crazy.

About a month ago, during a PMS-fueled bad day, I needed a new battery for my car. Except for it suddenly dying on me like that, it wasn’t a big deal. Batteries are easy to change and inexpensive enough. We went to the auto parts store, got the new battery, and got going again.

Last week, I noticed my battery light coming on. It would seem to come on in the afternoon, when it was hot out, so even though the car sat all day at work the engine was never really cold. It came on when I reached a traveling speed and went off when I slowed down. I let Mister know, and we made an appointment at the repair shop.

Mister suspected the alternator, since the battery was new and the belts were tight, and he would have changed it himself, but the directions to change the alternator include, “using a 2×4, pry the engine off the motor mount…” Yeah. Mister may have one day been able to do that, but not anymore. It’s not exactly a home repair type of job.

The repair shop was pretty good about it. They ran diagnostics, agreed with the alternator diagnosis, and replaced it. They also give a 1-yr, 12,000 mile warranty on the repair. We picked my car up on Friday night, and it seemed just fine. We also drove it across town and back on Sunday, and again there were no issues.

Monday evening on the way to run some errands, I stalled out at an intersection. WTF??? I put it in neutral, started it up, and noticed the battery light was on again. Well this is just fucking great. The battery light now stayed on almost consistently, especially when slowing down or idling at a stoplight.

I called Mister, he called the repair shop, and we brought it back. I bet we made their Monday! Now I have to drive Mister’s big bouncy gas-hog pickup to work. I don’t know what they’ll find or what they’ll do, but we’ll find out in the next day or so.

Even though I had a sucky experience buying my Kia (life tip: never try to buy a car by yourself when your Dad is a car salesman. I was woefully unprepared and paid way too much for the thing), it wasn’t a bad car overall. I had a much better experience buying my Focus, since I paid way less than retail and got to see my family as well, but honestly, I don’t think I’ll ever buy a Ford again. It’s 6 years old (don’t forget that model years come out about 4-6 months before the calendar year starts), has 54,000 miles on it, and already has had a transmission rebuild and new alternator. Who knows what else it needs.

I wish I was in a position to get a new car, but I’m not, so I’ll just get it fixed again. And again. And have a drink in the meantime.

*Even though I say this car is driving me to drink, PLEASE do NOT drink and drive. I don’t want to see any of you get hurt, get someone else hurt, or end up with a criminal record. If you want to drink, please wait until you are safely at home or you have a trusted designated driver.

Personal Blogging Crusader

As you might have noticed, I’ve been writing a few posts having to do with blogging lately, and I also did a guest post on Top Ten Blog Tips called 10 Tips for Personal Bloggers. You might also have noticed that my posts don’t have anything to do with PRO blogging. I don’t want to write about SEO, how to make money, or web traffic because it seems that everyone else already is. While there are countless numbers of pro blogs out there, I have yet to find a decent blog dedicated to the cause of the personal blogger. Lani of The Cerebral Mum tried a couple of years ago with Blogging Personal, which sadly is no longer around.

I think one of the reasons that personal bloggers don’t have a so-called pro voice speaking for them is that while the pros are all out to teach you how to make money, the personal bloggers are first and foremost out there for the love of blogging. They love to tell their story, and little by little they build connections and develop their own community. It’s not unlike moving to a new place and trying to make friends. I do get quite a bit of traffic from the guest post on Top Ten Blog Tips, which tells me that there must be some sort of demand for blogging tips geared towards personal bloggers. At this point I don’t think I could come up with enough to sustain an separate blog completely, so I’ll be trying to feature posts geared towards personal bloggers on a regular basis.

I still think that personal bloggers have needs, but a lot of the blogging advice sites are geared towards getting traffic and running a profitable blog. While traffic and profit would be nice, it’s not why I blog. I just want a good blog, not necessarily one whose sole aim is to make money. I want people to enjoy, and I want to help them have a personal blog they can be proud of.

I’ve created a new category called Personal Blogging. In the future weeks, I’ll be creating a new page to showcase this category, and will also include links to blogs and blog articles that are relevant to the cause of personal bloggers. I’ll also be revamping my categories to clean them up a bit, and trying to come up with ways to streamline things a bit to make it easier to find the information you’re looking for. I’ll also continue to blog as a personal blogger, because after all, my blog is All About Me – And Then Some.

As I get this new project started, what sort of personal blogging topics would you like me to cover? What questions would you like to see answered? Any and all input is welcome, and if you’re not comfortable leaving a comment, you can also use my contact form.