Step Away From Your Comfort Zone

Last night, I watched a movie called The Holiday on TV. It was about two women, one in LA and one outside of London, who decide to escape their heartbreak at Christmas by taking a vacation. They find each other via a website that facilitates home swaps and set out for their relaxing holidays. Of course, the movie is predictable in that both characters find what they wanted when their hearts got broken, and it’s a sweet chick flick (with gorgeous sets, I might add), but what hit me was the message I got from the movie.

I realized that both characters were open to new experiences because they stepped out of their comfort zones. Sometimes, to find success, we have to shed what’s familiar and get away from the everyday routines that have us operating on auto-pilot. By doing that, you are forced to really take a good look at everything going on and everything you experience. Don’t be afraid to shake things up a bit. Take a class, find a volunteer opportunity, even take a different route home one day, and you will see things that you’ve never seen before.

As my readers know, I moved away from the place I grew up in Massachusetts to come to Las Vegas in 2003. I wasn’t specifically looking for fame or fortune, like a lot of people moving here seem to want. I just wanted something different. Boy did I ever find that here! I also found some great friends and of course the most wonderful man in all the world, Mister. It’s a bit of real-life proof that stepping outside of your comfort zone can lead to success and happiness.

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  1. kaila says:

    Awwwww…that made me tear up—not because it was sappy, but because it was true. I think the message here, is you cannot find happiness unless you are open to changes.

    • Kirsten says:

      So true, and so many people will say that. I don’t think there are many people out there who can say they did the same thing day in and day out and found happiness doing that.

  2. Zhu (94 comments.) says:

    That’s exactly why I travel! You find some amazing inner strength… plus the world is beautiful.

    • Kirsten says:

      Zhu, I did travel quite a bit before a became a homeowner and working stiff. I’ll write about those adventures some day, I promise!

  3. mommy says:

    I hate NE winter and thinking of relocating to somewhere like No. Carolina. I’ve finally let go of the tether line keeping me here. Now I just wait for the dream to become a reality.

    • Kirsten says:

      As much as I hate NE winters, it’s not out of the realm of possibilities for Mister and I to move to MA. But that would still be a long day’s drive from NC.