Mar 18 2008
Wedding Planning is Insane!
We are doing the super-casual, super-budget-friendly wedding. So a lot of the things on the bridal magazine checklists are just not for us. Still, there is a lot to do once we figure out what we want and need. We could just elope and tell everyone, “Hey, by the way…” but I don’t really want to look back at my wedding and feel like I missed out on anything. I want to have the feeling that I had a wedding day, not ran an errand and ended up married. Even with just a few things, it’s amazing at how fast the costs spiral up and up and up.
We went and ordered part of my dress today. Rather than the traditional wedding dress, I’m going for separates, since I know I can wear them again. The top is a custom-made corset, from the fab folks over at Bad Attitude. Ialready have one of their corsets, so I know I can wear it for a length of time. Then we went to dinner and talked to the owner of the establishment about having the reception there. It’s a nice cozy Eye-talian joint that we frequent, so the owner is willing to accommodate us. Plus, having it in a restaurant we figure we’ll just have people order whatever from the menu, and we provide the cake and champagne. Works out better that way - cheaper for us, of course, and everyone will be happy with their meal since they have more than 2 choices.
We still have cake, favors, flowers to consider, I’m really trying to get in touch with VegasRic and convince him to be my photographer, even though he usually takes pictures of nekkid ladies, since that’s so much more fun and profitable. So keep your fingers crossed there. And oh yeah, invites. And the rest of my dress. And the license, to make it legal. And probably a few things I can’t think of right now. I’m reading the Kvetch boards at Indie Bride to really make my head spin.
We went back to look at some of the condos we saw yesterday, to get a better feel for it and remember it better. We saw so much yesterday that it was hard to keep them all straight. But our lease is up in 6 weeks, and we either sign another lease - 6 month minimum - or fork over an extra $100/mo for the priveledge of not having a lease. Plus we don’t want to move too close to the wedding, and after the wedding will be blazing hot.
When will my head stop spinning with all this stuff? And when oh when will I stop staring at my ring long enough to be productive?
This is going to sound crazy………….. Enjoy it. It does go by fast and though it seems like a lot now and a bit crazy and out of control. Believe it of not it is part of the memory and part of the fun. First and formost do it your way!
I have planned three weddings. Not here in Vegas but i’m sure it is similar where ever you go. Also i don’t work. So i am sure my Husband woun’t mind if you need something that i can help with.
BTW, getting a license here in Vegas is a bit un nerving. When you go you will be bombarded with people shoving pamplets in your face for diffrent chapels. Go on a day you have lots of nerves and patiences. However once you get inside it is easy as pie and quick quick. Course then ya have to go outside and face the vulturs again. EEEWWW!!!
Have fun and good luck.
P.S not sure if we will be there thursday or not, my Hubby has a sleep study.
*HUGS!*
Kelly, I am totally enjoying every minute of it (except the minutes where I want more sleep). Thanks so much for your offer of help - I’ve had lots of offers, so if I think of something I will let you know. And I’ve heard about what it’s like trying to get a marriage license in this town, but you know how Future Husband has a way with people, so it won’t be long before the pamphlet people all get the hint to stay away.
I hope you can make it Thursday - I miss you when you aren’t there!
I agree…just enjoy the insanity!!! I am so happy for you!!!
Thanks!
It’s amazing! I’m sure your wedding will be unforgettable, for you, your dear, and your friends!
There are so many things to do before a wedding, but it’s surely worth the effort!
Kiss, we’re trying to get all the major stuff out of the way by this weekend, which is why it’s been so crazy. Once that is done, it’s just wait, and won’t get crazy again until right before the wedding.